Body Positivity
I want to talk to you about body image! Summer is always a good time to renew our social media efforts into putting body positivity out into the world. Texture Clothing wants to help put an end to body shaming and letting society police our appearance, and we want to help encourage self-acceptance and self-love!
You know when you go shopping with your best friend, and they’re helping you pick out clothes? You want their advice because they’re that perfect balance of honest, kind, and encouraging. They’re as quick to say “Nope! That is not a flattering look,” as they are to say “That looks amazing on you.” But would your best friend say to you “your arms are flabby and gross, you should probably cover them up” or “you can wear that when you lose 10 pounds”? I didn’t think so. Would you ever say those things to anyone else? I certainly hope not; they’re cruel things to say. So then, why would you ever say something that mean to yourself?
We’ve all been there, those “I hate my body” moments. I’ll admit to having those moments at least once a day, and statistically, most women do. That’s utterly heartbreaking to me, even though it’s something I myself do regularly. I know that sounds hypocritical, but for some reason, it’s so much easier to be kind to others than it is to be kind to myself. I think that’s something many of us experience. And that’s something I’m trying to change in myself; I want to be able to be just as kind and forgiving to myself as I am to others. It’s been hard, and some days I fail. The growth has been slow, almost imperceptible sometimes. But I know I’ve come a long way, and to continue to make progress, I try to surround myself with body positive imagery, ideas, words, and people.
And that’s what we want to try to help do for you.
And we hope it encourages you to seek out other body positive media.
And ultimately, we hope that we in some small way can help you along your path to self-love and self-acceptance. Because you are enough.
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Photo Credit: Photomancy
Michelle
You are so right! Why is is so easy to see the beauty in others and not ourselves?! It feels so good to compliment others around us, it should feel good to compliment ourselves as well. Thank you for the reminder to be kind to ourselves physically and emotionally. I don’t think we can’t hear that reminder enough! And thank you for making clothing that works for all bodies and sizes. I LOVE my gusset leggings. They’re my favorite, most comfy thing to wear. As a person that felt apprehensive to wear tights out of the house I can say I wear them all the time and they make me feel really good about myself.
Emily
As soon as I made the switch to thinking of myself as a friend of mine I got a lot better at being kinder to myself. It still can be hard to override that nasty voice in the back of my head so sometimes it’s fun to talk to myself the way I imagine a perfect partner would. It turns into a running joke that makes me laugh in dressing rooms as I compliment my own butt in eloquent ways